I have been waiting a long time for this moment in time… I met Carlos when he was a punky little fifth grader and I was a mere sign language interpreting sub. I was as scared of the kids as they were of me – but neither of us knew the other was afraid. Carlos moved up to middle school and quickly became the kid no one wanted to deal with because he was full of attitude, but I liked it and I loved the challenge of getting to know this kid and his friends. When Carlos moved to a new school district in seventh grade I found myself in a full time interpreting job -  I wrote about that in my post Capital “D” Baby – with Carlos and a couple other kids. I worked side-by-side with an Interpreter whom I loved! We got along and we were able to vent our frustrations to each other. There was this one hard of hearing kid, Fabian, in the program whom I hated – really, true 100% hate! Fabian crawled under my skin every day with his attitude and his dislike for everything! Carlos followed Fabian’s lead every time and no matter what it was whatever Fabian said, Carlos agreed with. “The sky is blue!” I’d say and Carlos would shake his head in agreement then look to Fabian for clarity, but then Fabian would say, “That’s just dumb!” Carlos’ face would drop and he’d cross his arms, sit back and say that same damn thing, “Dumb!” There was a no win with Fabian… Summer school I worked with Carlos and let Fabian fade off in the distance. Eighth grade started off rocky because I went to another school to work with another student and the other interpreter stayed to work with Carlos and (my favorite student) Fabian! By the end of the first semester the other interpreter had it with the Deaf and Hard of Hearing director’s shit and quit! I was left alone with (we’ll call the Deaf and Hard of Hearing director IT) IT and went back to work with Carlos. The district hired another Interpreter – although the title “Dumb” would be far too nice here in describing this gal. I took Carlos and Fabian on full time after dumb interpreter yelled at Carlos in class. She thought she was his mama or something – who knows what the damage is there – but interpreters are not supposed to attack the student! *hello* I put up with IT the rest of the year and told Carlos and Fabian (whom I wasn’t minding as much anymore) that I needed to quit because I could not handle working with IT. They begged me to stay! I looked into their eyes and I saw that they needed a strong person in their corner of the ring. I knew if these guys were going to grow up to become strong healthy Deaf adults – they needed me. I needed to clean up and fight off any damage  IT would try to bring in their future. At the end of eighth grade year, I promised them I would stay with them and the day they walked across the stage at graduation – I was going to quit!

Fast forward four years to twelfth grade and a few days until graduation! We made it! Together, we pushed through their high school years and we fought the IT factor and I look at these two boys and I could not be prouder! We have been through a lot together – I could probably write a novel and who knows maybe someday I will… In short these boys went from attitude-ridden, hating everything, to everyone’s favorite kids! Carlos went from hating everything Deaf (including himself) to extreme Deaf pride and loving himself! Fabian went from bad grades and not understanding who he was to the smartest hard of hearing kid in the district and comfortable in his skin! They went from not knowing who they are to being proud of who they are… The transformation of these two boys in the last four years is an awesome story and I would love to tell it… someday. I have had the best (most stressful) years of my life with them and I only hope they feel a little bit the same. They have helped mold me as well as I have them. I am going to miss them but I am happy that the time has come for mama bird to throw the babies out of the nest – go and spread your wings boys and fly!

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